Thursday, November 13, 2014

Term For My Gender

At first glance my gender term is going to seem conceded and lazy. It will appear like I'm not really trying but I want you all to bare with me because there is real life implications that lead me to use this term to describe my gender. My gender term is:

Andrew Brudz

Lazy right? is just my name but here are the reasons why I chose this term. Gender is the way one presents themselves and on a goggled definition it is "the range of characteristics pertaining to, and differentiating between, masculinity and femininity." The reason that particular definition pertains to me so much is because my friends many times discussed who I am as a person. Sometimes I'm really flamboyant and other times I can be restrained. Sometimes I can be feminine and other times I'm masculine. This leads many to question my sexuality and regardless if that's part of the definition of gender its relevant to what defines my gender, but to define my gender I need to quote my what my friends said about me.
"Andrews not gay but hes not straight hes just.... Andrew."

"You're not overly masculine and you're not overly feminine you're just...you"

"Andrew my favorite thing about you is that your just yourself, you don't care what people think of you you're just you."

My gender isn't "Andrew" and its not "Brudz" It needs to be said as "Andrew Brudz" The only way to really understand this term is to actually get to know and after you get to know me and we become friends you wont disagree with my gender term  at all. "Andrew Brudz" I guess by definition is blend of masculine and feminine traits without either one being more dominate then they other but they still aren't distributed in an equal way. This describes me because I'm just a weird blend of feminine and masculine traits that are orientated in the strangest of ways that makes me, me.

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